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…wait a minute
Time to crack open a cold one.
A little piece of heaven, you might call it.
Don’t forget the heater
No, no. This is accurate.
No, I don’t think I will
= No
P. Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney
¡Escapé!
Bro, u ain’t got no clothes
That’s what a room without an elephant looks like according to AI
You will be the bearer of the new royal elephant
Hi!
I’ve posted this comic a frightening amount in the last few weeks.
Sexy losers is GREAT! What a deep cut.
Well, that’s one way to stop someone from jumping.
If a woman isn’t insatiable for me I’m not interested
This man fucks
Sounds like you just don’t know how to satisfy 🤷♀️
It’s a lot less effort to satisfy someone who wishes to be satisfied.
‘Insatiable’ = “unable to be satisfied”
It was a play on words
Sorry, I am both too elevated and inebriated to have recognized your wordplay
You deserve a lot more credit for this pun.
An audible sigh followed by “Fine” or “Sure” = Yes
But the lack of enthusiasm really kills the mood.
So do the tears. …wait
Their tears or mine?
By the time I’m done, everyone is crying.
Ah yes, I’ve heard they call you The Onion.
The shampoo promised tho
If you’re at that point, often, repeatedly… unless you’re with an Ace, your relationship is either over or wholly performative.
Probably best that you realize that.
IMO, consenting but unenthusiastic sex is worse than none, you should both have more respect for yourselves and either talk out what’s really bothering one or both of you, or just admit that you don’t even like each other.
The sort of converse of this is that if you do actually want to have sex with someone, but tell them you don’t, or never directly say yes… yeah you need to learn how to communicate directly instead of vaguely through extremely non objective innuendo.
I like it when she rolls her eyes
Technically, humans are animals so this basically rules out everything except corpses and sentient plants, fungi, and inanimate objects.
Where my shroom coomers at
~Cecilia Granata
Oooh, them boletes thicc tho!
That’s really cool!
Danger: Please don’t give anyone the idea that the only way for men to get lucky with a woman is via murder.
murder?? what kind of sick predator do you take me for?
i’m a scavenger thank you
Ah, I see you’re a man of culture as well
Yeah I got a shovel thank you
Well, we weren’t going to, but now you just did.
Thanks OP.
Eh … I’m on the fence about “hesitated yes”.
If we’re to reducto ad absurdum it, exactly how much hesitation turns a yes to a no? In fractions of a second, please.
Id say hesitating yes require a proper confirmation. If the person doesn’t look sure to you, ask them ?
Yeah I’ve been sexually violated in ways like posts like this are usually about (coerced and pressured past my "no"s into situations I didn’t want) and while I respect the effort, I feel like they’re often in a weird position of overzealous and only really applicable in hookup type situations, they also often ignore more manipulative styles of pressuring a yes.
Hesitation is fine, but it may be good practice to double check if the following yes isn’t enthusiastic. The yes is often less important than the enthusiasm in early stages. I’ve had wonderful nights of tongue wrestling where we never asked, we flirted until it was clearly mutual, and in one case we were hesitating at first because we were both not super comfortable with the age gap (we talked about it after). And we were both drunk, because there’s a difference between consensual actions while in an altered state and taking advantage of a drunk person, and that difference largely comes down to enthusiasm and being in a similar state. If I’m one beer in and generally feeling fine I ought to turn down a shitfaced woman who’s hitting on me hard, but if I’m right there with her that’s fine.
And in long term relationship6s I think the need for enthusiasm reduces. Sometimes you put out when you aren’t really in the mood because you love your partner and value the intimacy. That’s not being sexually violated unless you were pressured or coerced.
Consent is a discussion that requires genuine nuance, and checklists will always come off as far more clunky than most people’s lived experiences with it.
There are also a multitude of reasons to hesitate that aren’t “I want to say no but am afraid of saying it”. Such as stunned silence because he or she couldn’t believe someone so awesome wanted to have sex with them. Or confusion because it was loud and they misheard the word ‘sex’ as ‘sax’ and was wondering where they could possibly get one of those at this hour.
Also, auditory processing disorder. Give them a god damn minute.
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Pfft, a simple “Yes” is not exactly enthusiastic consent. I need enthusiastic consent before I even send the first message.
If it’s not “Gee golly willikers, yes! Yes! A thousand times yes!” with stars in her eyes while she’s farting rainbows, then it’s a no. /s
Uh, how many hues do you need in your rainbow because I found just the right gal for you except her rainbow is all red and made of blood. She’s farting blood.
MY ANUS IS BLEEDING!!!
I AM A BANANA!
MY SPOON IS TOO BIG!
I Am The Queen Of France!
I feel like you’re allowed to hesistate and still say a “yes” yes, especially since the “threatened and then said yes” is separate on this. It can be complicated and thought over first, no?
They would have done better to make it more about talking someone into it or pestering them than about “hesitation”. Maybe “reluctant” would have been better.
Sometimes people need to do a little internal status check. “I had a headache all day, am I not feeling it or would it be a fun alternative to ibuprofen?”No
https://lemmy.world/comment/23825694
Lol on my -5 and the +24 on the link. Smells like hypocricy in here.
I might get hate for this, but you can still consent when you’re drunk, so long as you’re not like barely conscious drunk or you’re not being manipulated coerced by someone.
Yeah, as an alcoholic, I don’t think every sexual encounter I’ve had in the past decade or more was mutual rape.
If both are drunk, neither can rape and it is kind of seen like animals fucking naturaly. You both wake up as non-animals and are horrified by the ugly person on the other side that you fucked.
I mean that can happen, but in my experience it’s never stopped as a one night stand.
dead = no
Came here to say this
Good catch, wtf
Thay’s the joke folks.
Yikes
You’re in a shitpost com.
Yeah i have some questions about the animal one…
I used to go to church at this cult and people are weird. There was this kid there (he’s okay now but like, we all grow up a little twisted) who was always making jokes about putting peanut butter on his nethers and having his dog lick it off. One day someone must have reported the jokes and that was the last time (thank gods) we heard them, despite months of telling him that was fucked up.
Some people think animals can consent, it’s just “non-verbal”. Best you can get is sometimes you’ll have to restrain (or drug) an animal in heat less. In reality, that’s like if pedophilia was okay if the child was teen and extremely horny, in reality teens are more often targeted than pre-pubescent kids, and they also groomed with sexual and/or romantic favors.
ostriches have entered the chat
Dead?
Yes
That’s right, dead tired of not going to Itchy and Scratchy Land
But only if the person has consented to it during their life. Some people are now arranging things, so that necrophiles can have one happy moment in their life at least “the proper way”, some allegedly going even further and letting their bodies to be preserved for sex purposes. While it makes me go “eww”, at least it’s not something like parents letting pedophiles to rape their kids, not the animal stuff, etc…
