• cadekat@pawb.social
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    3 months ago

    There’s a loud subculture of furries who insist sex is shameful and something to apologize for.

    • Midnight Wolf@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      Huh… I’ve been here a smidge under 20 years, and I’ve never met a fur who shares that sentiment. Awkward and quiet about it, sure, but nobody who is like “bad grrrr gross grrrr”. Almost exclusively in my circles it’s on the range of “I don’t mind at all, be weird with me” to (where I sit) “literally get freaky with me whenever and however, here are my kinks on f-list with all my sona details, also here is my 4K webcam and we can become content creators if you want too” levels of casual/open/positivity.

      ‘we are here for a good time, not a long time’. So, literally, fuck it. Do what/who makes you feel good.

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        3 months ago

        I’ve been into furry stuff since before my teens, also 20-25 years ago. Never have I heard of a furry who was also a puritan.