• Monument@lemmy.sdf.org
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      4 months ago

      It me!

      Which is also probably why I give this answer. Because it irks me to some degree that we just throwaway important questions like another human’s well-being.
      If someone responds without being tripped up, I sorta know they’re my kind of person.

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        4 months ago

        oh same haha, if someone asks me a question they’re getting the answer, i don’t care that they expected a “i’m fine”

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          4 months ago

          I just realized that I contradicted myself. I said that I use this with folks I don’t like, and then that when I use it, if someone responds well, that I know they’re my kinda people.

          I don’t exclusively use it with folks I don’t like! I also throw it out playfully. It’s validating when folks respond in-kind.