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  • Go for a walk in the mornings if a run is too daunting. Gradually go up.

    A problem I had is I’m too dedicated to some things and will run a lot and then injure myself by going too often or beyond what my body is capable of instead of ramping up in a healthy way. Then I wind up doing nothing again due to injury.









  • lobut@lemmy.catoMemes@lemmy.mlSelf-Made
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    2 months ago

    I’m too tired to look it up, but I remember someone saying that resilience or grit was one of the best indicators of success. Someone replied that actually the best indicator of success is if you came from wealth.




  • lobut@lemmy.catoMemes@lemmy.mlChinese numbers
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    2 months ago

    It probably sounds silly but I quite enjoy not memorizing different names for days of the weeks and months like when I was learning french … Lundi, Mardi …

    Nice to be like 星期一,星期二,星期三 … for week days and 一月,二月,三月… for months.



  • lobut@lemmy.catomemes@lemmy.worldWhen I die, turn me into soup
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    2 months ago

    I went vegetarian for a bit. I was never vocal about it. I just skipped ordering meat from the menu and asked for veggie options from the waiter. I was surprised the amount of people that gave me shit for it. It was like, “you know animals eat other animals right?” I used to respond with: “yes, but I want to do it for ecological reasons because factory farming is destroying our environment”. I remember getting short with people after a short period of time and started saying: “I graduated from university, what do you think?”

    Most of my vegan friends are so nice. Their partners eat meat and they let them live.

    Very rarely will you get a “vegan gainz” type person that laughs at people that die or have cancer because they’ve eaten meat. Those type of people are completely repulsive but they’re rarely the people I’ve encountered that are vegans.



  • lobut@lemmy.catomemes@lemmy.worldCope with hope
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    If you can afford it and it’s a pretty big if. Try to see a therapist if you can. Swap around them if it isn’t working for you as well.

    I remember doing group therapy and not everyone there was great, but it felt good, knowing that I didn’t have to tell anyone around me how fucked up I was and that they all just knew.