Not self hosted, but I’ve been using tailscale with nextdns and it has been very reliable. I got tired of worrying about availability of hosting my own

I use Nextdns for this reason. DNS is critical for Wife Acceptance Factor

I use tailscale with next dns, it works great. I don’t use magic DNS, however, but it’s a trade off I’m okay with for the benefit of blocking at the edge

I’m definitely cutting off my nipples this summer

It was lit when it was Gina and crew.