For me, it helps to have some time before work where you can get stuff done. Of course you need to go to bed earlier, which is the tricky part. So shifting part of the free time to the morning hours.

messege sounds like a sore loser :)

people will come back if the bloat/ad-trend of discord continues… hopefully?

Best of luck with this terrible piece of software. Let us know if the Japanese version is any better.