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Cake day: February 22nd, 2024

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  • It’s slang you’d hear 50 years ago in the east end and Essex. You’ll only really hear it used by gangsters in movies these days or someone putting on the accent for laughs, possibly from an old geezer, you certainly won’t hear it used by respectable establishments or family friendly media. It’s not generally considered offensive but is considered uncouth.






  • Turns out the media and memes are pretty terrible at getting to the more complex truth and problem with things.

    Alex is worse though, he uses this headline to push the idea the government is evil and the epa should be scrapped which is the exact opposite of what will help






  • That’s not a very logical argument, if you’re on a dating site you’ve already filtered out all people not looking for a partner, it’s like being surprised that everyone who comes to your sandwich shop happens to be hungry.

    Women who would genuinely rather be in the forest with a bear are not on tinder, though there is of course a bar where if you’re the only option it’s still possible that you won’t meet someone’s lowest requirements - this causes the sludge effect where anyone above the average bar is removed quickly while those below tend to get other sludge stuck to them (toxic behaviors develop due to failure or trauma) which makes future selection less likely.

    The real key is the more experience someone has with dating sites the less you should trust their opinion or advice, by the time someone is posting on r/tinder they’re already likely to have failed consistently for some time.

    I think this is part of the issue with the bear question, we instinctively know that when someone is ranting about women not being able to hold a conversation that it’s not a reasonable view but we also need to start to recognize that ‘I surround myself with exaggerated and often fabricated stories about how awful X is and only engage in spaces where counter argument is rejected’ will cause bias that negatively affects people snd communities.