is random.
XMPP with prosody is good once you’ve figured out the modules you need.
Unfortunately, I had to quit a few years back as there was no reliable iOS client. Long story short: notifications were never working as expected on that plateform.
Matrix.org is overkill for my needs, but at least notifications work accross the board 👍
#1 is doing the show for the children: they love when it feels risqué and adult-y.
#2 is doing the show to get parents’ trust.